Disclaimer

When you give me money, you are doing so as a gift in return for my time and companionship only. The acceptance of this money does not obligate me to participate in any type of activity. You must understand and agree that any money exchanged is for time and companionship only. Legally we cannot and will not discuss or agree to any type of solicitation. No fees or tips of any kind will be quoted, negotiated, assessed, or collected in exchange for sexual conduct.

Scheduling

The minimum session I offer to new clients is 1.5 hours, 10AM-midnight; the rate is the same, whether or not you choose to stay for 45 minutes, an hour, or the full 1.5 hours.

For Boston ONLY, different policies and rates apply. The rates below are for anywhere other than Boston.

Sessions

Private Time with Me - Incall Only

First time clients:

1.5 hours: $380
2 hours: $480
3 hours: $660
Overnight (Up to 24 hours): $800
Weekend (up to 60 hours, any days of the week): $1500

Repeat clients: $200 per hour, 1 hour minimum. Overnight and weekend same as above.

Ass Play: In any of the sessions offered, I have plenty of time to take full and unhurried care of your ass, a fantasy described in detail here. Although I call myself Strap-on Jo, use of a strap-on is not required; I am quite skilled at prostate massage without using one. Ass-play with fingers, handheld toys, and strap-on is my expertise, passion, and obsession.

Watching me get myself off: I refuse to fake an orgasm, so this might take a little while. The payoff is that I rarely have small, quiet orgasms. I always use toys; at the very least, I use a vibrator on my clit. I can also use big (or even huge) dildos in my pussy and medium size dildos or butt plugs in my ass. If you like, I can use nipple clamps on myself. Sometimes, if you're lucky, I might ejaculate/squirt, so choose your viewing location carefully. No, I will not squirt in your mouth or face.

Sensual massage: Allow yourself to relax while I use my body to massage your whole body. I don't have formal massage training, but I have a good feel for where people store tension in their bodies and can work on some of your knots, adjusting the pressure according to your feedback. If you would prefer that I only use my hands and not other parts of my body, let me know in person only ...I will not discuss this topic over the phone or email.

CBT (Cock and Ball "Torture"): I love creating non-traditional, but still pleasurable, sensations for cocks and balls (nipples too) but don't get off on literally torturing you. I love my Wartenberg wheel in general and when used for CBT and have a few other CBT toys like ball stretchers and my creative, talented hands in sexy black latex gloves. Hands are so very versatile for pinching and slapping and squeezing and rubbing!

T&D (Tease and Denial): I love to use my hands alone and in combination with toys to tease for hours, getting off on edging and then backing off over and over and over again, tease and denial as well as orgasm control games, with a bit (or a lot) of anal attention thrown in to make it even more intense. I love bringing people to a frenzied state where they are desperate for me to put on the strap-on or just let them go over the edge.

Cross Dressing: You may choose to cross dress for our session, but not as a form of humiliation. Please bring your own clothes. Please see below for additional cross dressing support services that I offer.

Being watched (extra $50): Like the humiliation of having another woman watching you get fucked by me? Or maybe you are just a huge exhibitionist? Either way, having another woman watch our session is likely to be available with an advance deposit, especially in Boston, NYC, SF, and LA.

Two women with strap-ons (extra $200-$350): Having another woman participate in our session, wielding a strap-on as well, is potentially available with an advance deposit, especially in Boston, NYC, SF, and LA. Depending on who is available, this option might include watching us play with each other as well, as described under "live sex show."

Including a transsexual woman (extra $200-$400): Although you may see the word SHEMALE on porn and escort sites, individual transsexual (TS) women rarely appreciate being referred to as a shemale. As someone who has friends and lovers all over the gender spectrum, I cringe when even well meaning men use language that would make my friends uncomfortable. If you are conscientious in your use of terminology, having a cute, feminine TS woman participate in our session, wielding her own cock, is sometimes an option with an advance deposit in NYC, SF, and LA. Depending on who is available, this option might include watching us play with each other as well, as described under "live sex show." Please don't ask me about specifics or use the term "fully functional"; I only do joint sessions with women who can make full use of your holes.

Bisexual experience (extra $100-$350): Having another man (well hung and I will not entertain further questions about that) participate in our session as a Top, to do what some dommes might refer to as a "forced bi" session, is potentially available with an advance deposit. Depending on who is available, this option might include watching us play with each other as well, as described under "live sex show." I don't use the terminology "forced bi" because there is nothing forced about it. Well, I guess you are forced in advance to admit to me and yourself that you are curious to explore. I delight in watching attractive male friends of mine get their cocks sucked. I also enjoy sessions that are both a male friend and me playing with you together for the full session, just a regular (top-only) guy with whom you can explore your same-sex desire. I relish creating a safe environment in which you can explore these interests.

Live sex show: Watch me have sex with a hot guy or girl of my choosing (you choose the gender), strictly someone I have excellent chemistry with and genuinely enjoy fucking or being fucked by, including the possibility of me use a strap-on on a man. You can watch me dominate or be dominated. Cuckolding role-playing is available for people who enjoy that. You don’t get to touch anyone but yourself, or be touched, during the show. A live sex show is only available with an advance deposit.

If you choose to watch me with a girl, keep in mind that it wouldn't be cheesy or fake "girl on girl action"; I really love dominating and fucking women, whether someone is watching or not.

Other Personal Services ($100 per hour )

Support/Counseling:

Cross-dressing support – Cross-dressing is a common and normal desire. I don’t have a wardrobe for you, and I don’t have a sexual interest in dressing you up as a woman, either for fun or to emasculate/humiliate you, but I am happy to help you indulge your desires and offer moral/emotional support. I’d be happy to accompany you shopping for women’s clothing for yourself. I can help you feel comfortable going into women’s clothing stores and shopping on your own. We can even go out to lunch with you dressed as a woman, if you would like. I’ve been told that my strength in this role is my empathy; I grew up as a tomboy and eventually had to learn how to dress like a girl, walk in heels, do makeup, etc. I have trouble finding women’s clothes that fit me because my breasts are disproportionately large. So I am familiar with being a non-standard size for women’s clothing, and having to figure out to be/feel “feminine.” You can also leave your purchases at my house if you don’t want your spouse/partner to find them.

Sex advice and counseling – I’m pretty damn knowledgeable. Obviously my strongest subject is anal sex for men and women, but it isn’t the only thing I know about. Yes, you can even get advice from me on how to get your girlfriend or wife to let you fuck her ass and how to do it properly so that she’ll let you do it again. Talk with me about gender identity and sexual orientation. You will find I’m hard to shock, and (providing no one is being harmed or subjected to anything without their consent) totally non-judgmental.

Naked computer lessons - Scared of computers? Can't do as much with them as your peers at work or your family? When you ask people for computer help, are their answers too fast and overwhelming to really learn from? Did you switch from Macs to PCs or vice versa and can't quite keep up anymore? Can't figure out spreadsheets or databases? Frustrated by presentations or document creation? Then ask me for naked computer lessons. I have many years of teaching experience with children, teens, adults, and seniors. A lot of my teaching was with people who were highly competent in other areas of their lives and found my style to be non-judgmental, not condescending, and empathetic to the frustration and confusion of dealing with new technology. In addition, I don't like to wear clothing. So, combining those two things, you get naked computer lessons.

Going out:

Dinner dates – Sure, take me out to dinner, drinks, a movie, a hockey game, etcetera. I’m intelligent, articulate, genuine, nice, and talk about sex a lot. Just pay me for my time and don’t expect any sexual extras, which cannot be negotiated.

Bruins games - For regular season games, my time is only $50 per hour!

Shopping – Take me shopping and buy me nice things, especially corsets, latex clothing, bondage furniture, and Mac computer stuff. In case you were wondering, Victoria's Secret does not carry bras in my size and if you want to stay on my good side, do not attempt to convince me to wear something lacey or frilly.

Online and Phone Play

Buy me stuff: I love to be spoiled, and you don't even need my shipping address! Buy me presents from my amazon wish list like sex toys, sex related books, and miscellaneous technology to make my life better. My wish lists on stockroom.com are much kinkier; buy me sex toys, BDSM toys, and latex clothing. If you buy me clothes, you can have a private webcam fashion show for free!

Phone sex and phone-with-cam: Call me via NiteFlirt. Descriptions of my various different lines/listings are on the contact page. No, I don’t keep a regular schedule, but you are always welcome to email me to set up a time for a phone session on NiteFlirt. If we are on the phone but not on NiteFlirt and conversation veers in the direction of masturbatory material for you, I will refer you to contact me via NiteFlirt instead.

Online chatting: My username on both Yahoo and AOL Instant Messenger is “BostonStrapOnJo.” If you have informational questions not addressed on this website or want to know my immediate availability, chatting is free. If you are looking to just chat because you are lonely, live vicariously through me, or type one handed, that's not free. I am not a free provider of cybersex or masturbatory material!!! The ways to pay for this are to buy me things from my amazon.com and stockroom.com wishlists (see "Buy me stuff" above), send me a tribute via NiteFlirt or the cash and online methods described on the Deposits page.